Personal meeting with your Russian girl
Some men think that it would be much better to invite his girl to visit his country to meet him in person, because she will be his guest and it will be easier for him to make her like him more. This sounds very attractive, but there are several problems in it. First it’s difficult for an average Russian girl to get a visa to any Western country, and this process may take half a year, and till you meet, she may find someone who is quicker and comes to meet her in her homeland. So we recommend you to visit your Russian lady in her native country. You will have a chance to meet her friends, relatives and learn much more about her. Besides, you won’t risk to lose any money you might send your girl to help her come to your country, because some scammers can take it and disappear, and you won’t be able to do anything about it. Never send money to anyone you know from the Internet, no matter how trustworthy and appealing this woman might seem. Even if you have no possibility to travel to the girl’s country, buy her tickets and send them by post or other delivery services, book a hotel for her, arrange other things. You can also compensate the girl’s expenses after she comes to your country, you meet and see she is real and has only good intentions. Be wise and watchful, and you will never be used by anyone.
Russian people are very hospitable, so it’s often that Russian girls invite men to stay in their place. Sure most man think it will be very nice and cheap to stay at her apartment or house, but we highly recommend you not to do it. This is only the first meeting and you cannot be sure of how these relations will develop. What if you meet, spend several hours together and feel uneasy with each other, or maybe you’ve quarreled over something. What will you do then? Where can you go? (You certainly haven’t come for one day only). All this means that it’s better for you to stay in a hotel or rent an apartment. However your relations develop, you’ll have place to go, and it will give you more confidence and independence.
It’s impossible to travel without any documents, and we want you to pay special attention to keeping them safe. You are in a strange country, and you’ll have lots of problems if you lose, for instance, your passport. Not to allow it happen make some copies of important documents and use them, when you go for a walk or visit some public places. Keep the originals in a safe place in your apartment or hotel. These measures will help you to avoid many problems which may spoil even the best Time spent with your girl.
The first meeting is very important and unforgettable! At least if you try to make it so. In order to make a good impression on your lady, bring her some present with you. We do not mean expensive diamond ring or necklace, it can be a simple souvenir, but it should show the Russian woman that you’ve been thinking about her while choosing it. Think of your woman’s interests, what does she like? What would she be glad to receive? Your present should express your desire to show that it is meant for her only. Do not forget about Russian woman’s children if she has any. Happy children will make their mom happy too. You can bring some sweets of toys. Anything you can bring from your country will be very interesting.
